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天使之心

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爱情

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我是***上师，你们好

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今天上师想讲个欢乐一点的主题：爱情

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首先提到爱情，你们直观的联想

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在西方社会传统中应该就是你们所熟知的爱神

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而东方社会所知悉的角色则是月老

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不管是爱神还是月老

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其中拉姻缘、牵红线的举动也不是随意为之

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这中间牵扯到两个人之间是否有彼此的宿世姻缘

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还有种种其他条件限制所致

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因缘分两种，好的因缘与坏的、恶业的

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后者比较被你们多数人所憎弃

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今天先不谈这部分

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好的姻缘除了累世因缘聚散的养成

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也与你们彼此的灵魂振动频率契合有关

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有些缘分即便一开始注定是段不好的缘分

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可是如果你努力提高自己的灵魂振动频率

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那么你人生中原本的恶业恶缘

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也会因为你的灵魂振动频率被拉高

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而自动被引导牵引到另一个

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更适合你此时的灵魂振动频率的因缘上

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觉得很奇妙吗

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其实这中间跟你们所能理解的吸引力法则

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也是相契相合的原理

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爱情嘛，就是有相近的振动频率才能彼此看对眼

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心生爱慕互相喜欢

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之所以你们如此喜欢那支能射中彼此的爱情之箭

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不就是期待能与自己心仪之人共度一生、

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心心相印的那种甜蜜感吗

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爱情不是肤浅的

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不是嘴巴上喊着你爱我、我爱你

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任何外在美貌或物质标准可比拟的

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你会发现

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如果一开始你是被这种

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世俗的外在条件所吸引的缘分

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非但是你婚后甚至是才相爱不久

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你们之间或许就能感觉到

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彼此心灵之间的那种空洞感

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不大实际

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心里的不安全感可能会日渐扩大

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也就是你们能理解的

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「相爱容易相处难」的道理

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在恋爱初期，即便感觉不是很适合

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你或许还会假装没感觉

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继续与他（她）在一起

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并且坚信你们是真心相爱

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但或许不用上师继续说下去

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你们就该猜得到

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像这种建筑于外在条件的爱情

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彼此之间的心门是没有向对方敞开的

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两道紧闭的心门

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是不可能绽放出动人美丽的爱情火花的

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为什么现今世界的离婚率如此居高不下

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为什么现在很多人都害怕走入婚姻

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不就是因为你们不自觉地

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容易被外在物质条件与主观印象所局限吗

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排除视婚姻如畏途的单身因素之外

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过往你们社会的普世价值观中

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男人会注意女人的外表美不美

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能不能为自己增加社会经济条件的资本

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女人则观察男人的口袋深不深

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能不能为自己日后的生活存得经济保障

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这些都是被捆绑的错误价值观

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现在很多人的婚姻价值观已然健康许多

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这种偏差的价值观

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已渐渐为新一代的人们所扬弃

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其实

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那些过去的价值观本身并没有所谓的对错

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只有体验的问题

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这句话你们身处其间时

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或许看起来会觉得上师很没有同理心

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但试问你们自己的那颗心

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若非你们的心向外求

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岂能听不见与自己灵魂真正相应和的另一个灵魂

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对你真心的呼唤

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这世间并非没有真爱

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而是那些感动人心的爱情

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你们往往容易选择视而不见

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甚至是带些鄙视与侧目

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这世间最美丽的爱情其实处处可见

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爱神的箭

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往往也是射向那些频率相应的人心之间

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不要抱怨自己怎么老是所遇非人

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更不要埋怨自己是被遗落的珍宝

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其实爱情的真爱之美与稀奇之处

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就在于你永远不缺时间，只要你有心

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不管你的年龄几许

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不管你外在的价值为何

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人海茫茫之中

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总有那么一个人会真正为你倾心

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也正在苦苦寻找于你

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记住，在这个世界中

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总有那么一个人永远都在等着你

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你的真爱或许就在下一个转角

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也可能就在与之见面心灵悸动的那一刹那间

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更有可能就在某一个下雨天

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在你或他一颦一笑的回眸间

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不要害怕追求爱情

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也不要觉得自己已与真爱无缘

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跟年龄无关，跟外在的价值无关

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真爱永远都在

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只要你敞开心，爱情随时都可能降临

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毕竟爱情除了缘分的牵引

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真正能维系住彼此感情的

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还是在于彼此为对方的付出与行动

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以及如何在生活中

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创造增添爱情甜蜜滋味的调剂心思

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期待吧

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美丽的爱情能滋润你的心

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丰富你的灵魂

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让你找到与心灵爱侣相依相伴

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那种心动偎存的美丽吧

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我是***上师

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我虽然没有射向你们心间那支爱情的箭

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但是上师仍然深深地爱着你们，祝福你们

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愿天下有情人终成眷属

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我爱你们

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注解

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上师只是举个大家熟悉的名字﹙爱神、月老﹚为例

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其实要牵红线不是那么简单

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这中间牵扯到两个人之间

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是否有彼此的宿世姻缘

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还有种种其他的条件限制所致

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所以

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上师祂们也不会主动干预我们的自由意志

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毕竟有时候我们觉得好的

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在祂们眼中未必是那样

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有时候唯有经历过了

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才会懂得反思问题出在哪里

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这也是祂们给我们的爱

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如果是民间的月老

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现在不建议大家再去庙里拜月老了

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早期的《观音之爱》读者都该知道为什么

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有兴趣的也请自行去查找

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上师补充，的确会有一些缘分是上师牵的

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不过很少，非常少

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要福报很深

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且那段缘分对两个当事人都很重要，才有可能

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