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欲望

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大家好，我是***上师

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今天想谈的主题是「欲望」

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欲望牵扯到的是

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你们心中有所不足的感觉与想法

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你会有想要圆满自己感觉上的不足

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或是满足自己想法的愿望

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在你们的生活中充斥各种大大小小的诱惑

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你们每天都要与自己的肉身人格

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作思想上的拉锯

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你们必须小心地检查与审视

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哪些是自己真正需要的

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哪些只是欲望的想要

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欲望的本身并没有什么对错之分

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因为欲望本身也是促进你们成长

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想得到更多的原动力

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有了不足的念头

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会驱动你们去改变自己的生活

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想要得到更多的这种想法

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其实也是源自于对自身现况的不满足

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这原本也没有什么错

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需要是---必须被满足的基础条件

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举凡能维持你们生活基本所需

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基础的教育体系

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甚至是食衣住行的基本满足

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这些都在必需的基础条件之内

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而想要则是不被满足的部分

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你会有更多其他扩大的渴望

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也正是因为这种渴望

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才会促使你们人类历史社会

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走到今天这样繁荣富庶和乐的模样

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当一个人的渴望

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是建立在对多数人有益的想法与行为上时

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这种欲望推动的形成背后

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往往也带着某些善意的助力在推波助澜

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或许你们原本觉得是理所当然的一切

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其实背后也隐含某种

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你们所不能理解的运作机制

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话说回来，攸关你们多数人个人的欲望部分

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过多的欲望

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会让你们的心里产生焦灼不安的躁动感

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你们有些人会不自觉地

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被外在环境的刺激所驱使

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去购买超过你们能力所需的额外奢侈品

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下意识可能还会认为

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反正钱先花了再说

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钱还可以再赚

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钱不够了先刷卡享受再说

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诸如种种放纵自己的想法与念头

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促成你们达成自己想要的欲望

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上师前面也说过了

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欲望本身并无对错之分

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甚至好的

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高善的欲望还可以促进

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你们人类社会的发展与便利

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就这个角度来说

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是十分值得赞许的想望

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回到个人私利的部分

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你们当然还是可以容许自己有部分的奢侈想望

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当作自己劳动或完成某项特定成果时

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犒赏自己的奖励

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这也无可厚非

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当你们有所付出时

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自然会想得到相应的回报

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这种程度的想要

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上师觉得也是出于对自己的一种肯定

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至于其他额外的部分

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上师觉得你们在冲动的欲望涌出时

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不要先急着满足自己的想要

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不妨先冷静个几天

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别让自己的理智

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被欲望的念想给冲昏了头

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做出冲动性的消费行为

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事后再不断自责懊恼，入不敷出

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铸成自己财务上的恶性循环，又是何必

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你们中间有多少人

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曾有过类似的冲动性消费呢

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重申欲望的形成

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有部分是对你们自身内在的不满足

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想要改变

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想得到更多

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想让自己感觉更加不一样

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这些都是欲望形成的最初形状

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如果你们能在自身欲望的形成之初

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就对自己有多一分觉察

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类似的冲动报复性消费欲望就会大幅减低

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至于其他类型像升职、买房、求子

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一夜致富等等五花八门

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各式各样的欲望清单

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上师就不一一细讲

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或许有机会在之后的传讯中会提到

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其实不管是何种形式的欲望

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皆源于我现在没有，想要得到作为开始

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但你一旦曾经拥有

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发现跟自己原先想像的不同

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又或者是沉溺于追逐享受其中

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一直想要得到更多更好的

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扩张性不足的贪求欲念时

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你们就该及时踩煞车

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去认真细想，为了满足类似的欲望

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你必须付出什么样的代价

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这样的代价值得你付出追求吗

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如果你仔细想过后

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那种冲动与热情

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仍然不断地烧灼着你心中的渴望

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那便如你所想地去前进吧

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你或许会在这样追逐的过程中

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看到自己想要的人生风景

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或赞叹与满足，抑或是失落与遗憾

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人生欲望的追逐

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也是你们成长经历的一部分

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只要想清楚自己能承担的后果

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那便无怨无悔地前行

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但唯一的前提是

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自己欲望的满足

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要建立在健康的需求上

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不要为了满足自己的私利而践踏他人的权益

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才是健康正向良好的欲望

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我是***上师，祝福你们都能如偿所愿

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我爱你们

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