1 00:00:02,569 --> 00:00:03,737 天使之心 2 00:00:03,937 --> 00:00:05,005 45 3 00:00:05,271 --> 00:00:07,741 如何做出正确的思考与判断 4 00:00:08,608 --> 00:00:10,944 我是***团的***上师,你们好 5 00:00:11,544 --> 00:00:16,316 今天传讯的主题是「如何做出正确的思考与判断」 6 00:00:16,816 --> 00:00:18,852 在说明这个主题前 7 00:00:18,885 --> 00:00:22,789 你们要先思考---要做出正确的思考与判断 8 00:00:22,822 --> 00:00:24,491 最重要的是什么 9 00:00:25,025 --> 00:00:28,094 你们应该会有一种直观的反射联想 10 00:00:28,128 --> 00:00:30,730 那就是要先有一颗思路清晰 11 00:00:30,730 --> 00:00:34,034 反应灵敏、应变果决的脑袋才是吧 12 00:00:34,634 --> 00:00:37,237 要拥有这种脑袋的决胜关键 13 00:00:37,270 --> 00:00:38,471 在于你的脑袋里 14 00:00:38,505 --> 00:00:41,441 不能有太多杂七杂八的念头充塞 15 00:00:41,474 --> 00:00:44,077 你的思路必须清明而有智慧 16 00:00:44,744 --> 00:00:46,746 所谓思路清明的定义 17 00:00:46,780 --> 00:00:49,082 指的是你在思考事情时 18 00:00:49,115 --> 00:00:52,052 脑袋的逻辑是清晰、理性的 19 00:00:52,052 --> 00:00:54,654 情感上的牵绊与依附是自在 20 00:00:54,688 --> 00:00:57,023 寡淡、不受他人牵制的 21 00:00:57,057 --> 00:00:59,793 所做出的决定经过通盘考量 22 00:00:59,793 --> 00:01:03,163 并将情感与感觉因素的影响降至最低 23 00:01:03,830 --> 00:01:07,100 当然,这只是一种情境上的概说 24 00:01:07,767 --> 00:01:10,537 你们经常受困于思考不清晰 25 00:01:10,537 --> 00:01:14,808 在情绪冲动焦虑下容易做出错误判断或决定 26 00:01:15,342 --> 00:01:17,077 轻则事情搞砸 27 00:01:17,110 --> 00:01:19,512 重则造成难以弥补的结果 28 00:01:19,512 --> 00:01:20,914 无论是哪一种 29 00:01:20,947 --> 00:01:22,749 你们心中定会涌现 30 00:01:22,782 --> 00:01:26,252 「早知如此,何必当初」的悔恨与懊恼 31 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:30,490 其实有类似的情绪挫折并非全然不好 32 00:01:30,523 --> 00:01:32,926 你们往往也能从错误选择中 33 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:34,828 摸索出正确的道路 34 00:01:34,861 --> 00:01:38,198 只是与其不断走错路、做错判断 35 00:01:38,198 --> 00:01:40,900 再让自己陷入循环往复的懊恼 36 00:01:41,568 --> 00:01:43,136 不如好好思考 37 00:01:43,169 --> 00:01:46,072 自己该如何避免这些不利于判断 38 00:01:46,106 --> 00:01:49,242 思考的障碍性情绪与心理问题 39 00:01:49,743 --> 00:01:52,679 一个人为什么会觉得脑袋不清楚 40 00:01:52,679 --> 00:01:55,048 仿佛有东西堵住你的脑袋 41 00:01:55,081 --> 00:01:58,284 让你无法清明果决地思考、判断呢 42 00:01:58,985 --> 00:02:00,320 你要先厘清 43 00:02:00,353 --> 00:02:04,624 目前严重影响你情绪与心情的首要事件是什么 44 00:02:05,258 --> 00:02:08,261 你要将事情的轻重缓急予以分类 45 00:02:08,294 --> 00:02:10,563 自己要先做基础的判断 46 00:02:10,597 --> 00:02:13,266 究竟是眼前这件事比较重要 47 00:02:13,299 --> 00:02:16,569 还是那件萦绕在心头的烦恼比较重要 48 00:02:16,603 --> 00:02:19,439 如果让你烦心的事刚好只有一件 49 00:02:19,439 --> 00:02:20,974 那就简单多了 50 00:02:21,508 --> 00:02:23,543 首先你要保持冷静 51 00:02:23,576 --> 00:02:26,379 不必让脑袋有过多的得失判断 52 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:30,617 因为有时候你以为会演变成最糟的状况 53 00:02:30,650 --> 00:02:32,318 未必真的会发生 54 00:02:32,318 --> 00:02:34,821 你不需要给自己预加判断 55 00:02:35,321 --> 00:02:38,158 再者,心情也切莫急躁 56 00:02:38,625 --> 00:02:41,161 当你心中产生焦虑的念头 57 00:02:41,194 --> 00:02:43,229 你的小我思考会不断衍生 58 00:02:43,229 --> 00:02:46,166 各种情境小剧场供你模拟演练 59 00:02:46,166 --> 00:02:48,001 结果让你疲于应付 60 00:02:48,034 --> 00:02:50,070 焦灼的心情喧腾不止 61 00:02:50,070 --> 00:02:52,572 你的脑袋思考因而过度运作 62 00:02:52,605 --> 00:02:54,507 像是要烧起来似的 63 00:02:54,507 --> 00:02:57,444 完全无法做出正确的理性思考 64 00:02:58,044 --> 00:03:01,548 你要意识到,这样做对你即将面对的事 65 00:03:01,581 --> 00:03:03,049 可有任何帮助 66 00:03:03,650 --> 00:03:07,320 我能不能做其他事,扭转这样的情况 67 00:03:07,821 --> 00:03:11,791 怎么做才是对当下的我而言最正确的选择 68 00:03:12,292 --> 00:03:15,195 当你提出疑问让自己思考时 69 00:03:15,195 --> 00:03:18,164 另一个反思索的焦点就会出现 70 00:03:18,765 --> 00:03:20,066 你会意识到 71 00:03:20,100 --> 00:03:23,770 原来焦虑状态下的自己根本无法解决问题 72 00:03:23,803 --> 00:03:25,905 你自然会慢慢冷静下来 73 00:03:25,939 --> 00:03:27,707 停止过度的思虑 74 00:03:28,274 --> 00:03:30,910 你明白急于思考某件事时 75 00:03:30,944 --> 00:03:34,114 焦躁的心情会对应到你的思考运作 76 00:03:34,647 --> 00:03:36,716 你一定有过类似经验 77 00:03:36,716 --> 00:03:38,318 当你苦苦思索 78 00:03:38,351 --> 00:03:41,488 感觉就要肠枯思竭、江郎才尽 79 00:03:41,521 --> 00:03:43,223 脑袋想出的点子 80 00:03:43,256 --> 00:03:46,292 偏偏对你的现况就是毫无帮助 81 00:03:46,860 --> 00:03:48,895 可是当你放弃思考 82 00:03:48,928 --> 00:03:52,065 决定先去冲个澡或躺下来小寐时 83 00:03:52,098 --> 00:03:54,801 灵感的火光就会不经意地迸发 84 00:03:54,834 --> 00:03:56,603 这时蹦出来的想法 85 00:03:56,636 --> 00:03:59,739 往往会比你绞尽脑汁所想的好得多 86 00:04:00,273 --> 00:04:03,510 过度思考,并不能帮你解决问题 87 00:04:03,510 --> 00:04:05,779 而适度放空自己的脑袋 88 00:04:05,812 --> 00:04:07,814 让自己能以闲适淡然 89 00:04:07,847 --> 00:04:09,649 不执着的心情应对 90 00:04:09,649 --> 00:04:13,353 往往就是解决问题的答案呼之欲出的时候 91 00:04:13,853 --> 00:04:16,890 即便你仍不熟悉这种心灵操作 92 00:04:16,923 --> 00:04:19,159 但是你真的可以试试看 93 00:04:19,693 --> 00:04:21,861 别把事情想得太复杂 94 00:04:21,895 --> 00:04:24,998 也不要觉得你眼前的世界就要崩塌 95 00:04:25,498 --> 00:04:28,535 这世界并非如你想像这么可怕 96 00:04:28,568 --> 00:04:30,403 虽然也没那么温柔 97 00:04:30,437 --> 00:04:34,107 不过,事情既然遇到了就要试着去面对 98 00:04:34,140 --> 00:04:35,642 而非一味逃避 99 00:04:36,242 --> 00:04:40,280 与其坚持事情一定要朝自己预想的方向走 100 00:04:40,313 --> 00:04:41,448 不如思考 101 00:04:41,481 --> 00:04:43,183 怎么做才能让事态发展 102 00:04:43,183 --> 00:04:46,653 尽可能控制在自己可接受的范围内 103 00:04:47,153 --> 00:04:49,356 如若可行,恭喜你 104 00:04:49,389 --> 00:04:52,892 你的人生就多添了一笔心想事成的事迹 105 00:04:53,493 --> 00:04:56,229 可是如果事情最终不可行 106 00:04:56,229 --> 00:04:57,997 上师仍要恭喜你 107 00:04:58,031 --> 00:05:00,033 至少下一次你会知道 108 00:05:00,066 --> 00:05:04,004 事情若按照你当初的规划去进行将会失败 109 00:05:04,004 --> 00:05:06,873 你还是学到了一个新的失败经验 110 00:05:07,374 --> 00:05:10,977 总结要如何让自己的意识变得更清明呢 111 00:05:11,478 --> 00:05:14,180 那就是你要尽可能地训练自己 112 00:05:14,214 --> 00:05:17,117 保持处事应变态度的优雅从容 113 00:05:17,650 --> 00:05:19,886 要知道事情既已发生 114 00:05:19,919 --> 00:05:22,622 而且到了让你心生焦虑的时候 115 00:05:22,622 --> 00:05:25,325 往往事情的演变已不如你意 116 00:05:25,358 --> 00:05:28,261 甚至可能事态发展也有些糟糕 117 00:05:28,261 --> 00:05:30,997 这时若你还给自己火上浇油 118 00:05:31,031 --> 00:05:33,800 不断催逼自己产生焦虑的心情 119 00:05:33,833 --> 00:05:36,336 未经周全思考就贸然行动 120 00:05:36,336 --> 00:05:39,639 事情的后续发展岂非更加难以收拾 121 00:05:40,306 --> 00:05:41,508 凡事尽力 122 00:05:41,541 --> 00:05:45,145 对事情最后的结果抱有期待但是不执着 123 00:05:45,178 --> 00:05:46,346 放过自己 124 00:05:46,346 --> 00:05:47,981 更不要为难自己 125 00:05:48,014 --> 00:05:50,917 给自己的脑袋可冷却的闲置空间 126 00:05:50,950 --> 00:05:52,585 往往就在此刻 127 00:05:52,619 --> 00:05:55,889 也是你们能接收自己内在的神圣智慧 128 00:05:55,922 --> 00:05:58,625 仿如灵光乍现迸发火光那般 129 00:05:58,658 --> 00:06:00,894 想出绝妙好点子的时候 130 00:06:01,661 --> 00:06:04,764 你要相信自己有足够的智慧与能力 131 00:06:04,798 --> 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