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天使之心

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留白

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我是***团的***上师，你们好

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今天的主题是「留白」

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留白这个主题，相信你们应该不陌生

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有在学习中国水墨画的朋友们应该明白

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作画时的留白技巧

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可营造出更宽广、更大的想像空间

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不仅止于水墨画

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你们的乐曲创作

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生活的创造空间留白

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戏曲间转折的手法

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还有你们说故事时

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也会故意留下开放式想像的剧情结局

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这也是留白手法的一种

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今天上师不是来引导大家

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认识各种留白的意境

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想了解的朋友，可自己上网搜寻

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相信会让你们有更深一层的了解

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上师今天想谈的留白主题

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还是专注在与你们息息相关的与人相处

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沟通、谈话等相关情况上

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首先，你们还是要先有个概念

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所谓留白就是留有余地，不要过满

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留有空间退路

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让人有种言有尽、但意无穷的想像空间

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凡是过满过尽、过于亲密、没余下空间

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统统都是超过了

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满溢了、太over了

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还是不明白上师说的意思，对吗

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没关系，上师慢慢说下去

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你们人与人之间的相处

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有时候会遇到一个困难

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就是一开始遇到气味相投的人

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彼此有相近喜好与思维时

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那种仿如被雷光石火击中的感动

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会令你与他有相见恨晚的错觉

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你们太喜欢彼此

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巴不得掏心掏肺与他分享生活点滴

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你视他为知己、闺密

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什么都跟他分享

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心里有委屈也第一时间告知他

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除了生你的父母与手足兄弟外

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你大概以为全世界就属他最懂你

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这种感动

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你们成长的过程中应该或多或少经历过吧

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但曾几何时

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往日的好兄弟怒目相背分开了

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曾经的闺密好友

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因为一些所谓的小事背叛疏远了

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往日情谊一下子像是假的一样

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变得连普通朋友也算不上，这是为什么

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你大概会说是自己遇人不淑

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误信他人

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上师在这里先给你们一句老生常谈的话

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「君子之交淡如水」及「交浅不可言深」

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初识相交的两个人

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不管击中你心中深处的那抹火花多灿烂

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还是请你们谨记这两句话

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看到这里你是否疑惑

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咦，这是有着「无条件的爱」

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的上师会说的话吗

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上师想说，在上师的世界里

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我们的沟通是靠意念交心的

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一个意念抛出去

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里面就包含我们各自的情绪、想法

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还有自己想表达的意思

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一个意念就交融了千言万语的代表性讯息

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可碍于你们的沟通方式

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还没有到达5D上师们

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甚至更以上的层次

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所以造成你们许多人沟通上的困难

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你们应该也遇过

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自己想表达的意思遭人断章取义

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曲解了原先的本意

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你们很依赖言语上的交谈

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偏偏这种沟通方式

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又是最容易遭到误解的方式

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以后有机会再深入探讨有关于沟通的话题

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回到主题，留白

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话不要说尽、点到为止

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不管与人初相识或想劝告他人时

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皆是如此

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没有一个人会喜欢自己被批判与指责的

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所以当你想对另一个人不当的行为

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给出意见与劝告时

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话语轻说、点到为止即可

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聪明人自然能听得懂

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若不巧他听不大懂

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你也可以采取分段分次地说

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一次把话说满说尽

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一来对方吸收、消化不良

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二来对方也可能因此恼羞成怒、反唇相讥

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这两种方式，其实都不算很好、很正确

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当然这种建议也是因人而异

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毕竟你们彼此缘分深浅

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是否有义务提点他人

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他人是否愿意接受，则又是另一回事

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留白也能用在两个人相处的空间模式上

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任何人都需要一点自己的独处空间

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任意侵占或掠夺占用他人的私人空间甚至时间

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刚开始兴致正热时还好

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时间久了终会感觉厌烦

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做人处事也一样

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留一点白，事不要做绝、话不要说尽

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给彼此一点退路

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相信你们的人际关系也会较为圆满

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留白的相处哲学其实运用还很广泛

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比如说，你在思考一件事情时

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你总觉得十拿九稳

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那么你是否有预留配套空间

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来应付突如其来的状况呢

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再比如男女之间的相处与交往

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太腻了你觉得厌烦

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太远了你觉得冷淡

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留白的相处或许会适合彼此也不一定

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另外在对待自己的情况也一样

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不要将自己的时间与思绪占得太满

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要留些空间给自己

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不要把自己榨干

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让自己有空间可反刍自己的思绪

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并沉淀自己的心灵

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适度给自己放松

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你才能再度上紧发条

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重新向前走

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其他像是色彩学上的留白

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形与相的对比

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色彩浓淡烘托相衬

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建筑美学中的空间感等等

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就不一一细述了

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留白其实是一门很高深的技巧

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需要你们细细地品味

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比如你们应该能理解那种

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「无声胜有声」的心灵触动

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一个人话说得再多、再满

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都远不如他的默默陪伴

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更令人动容

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没有色彩的留白，看似无色

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实则色彩丰富，需要你们用心去体会

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我是***上师，我们下次再见

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