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天使之心

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留白

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我是***團的***上師，你們好

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今天的主題是「留白」

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留白這個主題，相信你們應該不陌生

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有在學習中國水墨畫的朋友們應該明白

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作畫時的留白技巧

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可營造出更寬廣、更大的想像空間

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不僅止於水墨畫

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你們的樂曲創作

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生活的創造空間留白

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戲曲間轉折的手法

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還有你們說故事時

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也會故意留下開放式想像的劇情結局

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這也是留白手法的一種

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今天上師不是來引導大家

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認識各種留白的意境

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想了解的朋友，可自己上網搜尋

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相信會讓你們有更深一層的了解

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上師今天想談的留白主題

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還是專注在與你們息息相關的與人相處

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溝通、談話等相關情況上

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首先，你們還是要先有個概念

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所謂留白就是留有餘地，不要過滿

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留有空間退路

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讓人有種言有盡、但意無窮的想像空間

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凡是過滿過盡、過於親密、沒餘下空間

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統統都是超過了

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滿溢了、太over了

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還是不明白上師說的意思，對嗎

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沒關係，上師慢慢說下去

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你們人與人之間的相處

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有時候會遇到一個困難

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就是一開始遇到氣味相投的人

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彼此有相近喜好與思維時

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那種仿如被雷光石火擊中的感動

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會令你與他有相見恨晚的錯覺

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你們太喜歡彼此

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巴不得掏心掏肺與他分享生活點滴

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你視他為知己、閨密

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什麼都跟他分享

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心裡有委屈也第一時間告知他

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除了生你的父母與手足兄弟外

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你大概以為全世界就屬他最懂你

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這種感動

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你們成長的過程中應該或多或少經歷過吧

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但曾幾何時

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往日的好兄弟怒目相背分開了

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曾經的閨密好友

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因為一些所謂的小事背叛疏遠了

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往日情誼一下子像是假的一樣

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變得連普通朋友也算不上，這是為什麼

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你大概會說是自己遇人不淑

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誤信他人

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上師在這裡先給你們一句老生常談的話

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「君子之交淡如水」及「交淺不可言深」

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初識相交的兩個人

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不管擊中你心中深處的那抹火花多燦爛

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還是請你們謹記這兩句話

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看到這裡你是否疑惑

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咦，這是有著「無條件的愛」

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的上師會說的話嗎

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上師想說，在上師的世界裡

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我們的溝通是靠意念交心的

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一個意念拋出去

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裡面就包含我們各自的情緒、想法

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還有自己想表達的意思

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一個意念就交融了千言萬語的代表性訊息

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可礙於你們的溝通方式

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還沒有到達5D上師們

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甚至更以上的層次

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所以造成你們許多人溝通上的困難

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你們應該也遇過

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自己想表達的意思遭人斷章取義

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曲解了原先的本意

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你們很依賴言語上的交談

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偏偏這種溝通方式

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又是最容易遭到誤解的方式

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以後有機會再深入探討有關於溝通的話題

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回到主題，留白

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話不要說盡、點到為止

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不管與人初相識或想勸告他人時

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皆是如此

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沒有一個人會喜歡自己被批判與指責的

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所以當你想對另一個人不當的行為

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給出意見與勸告時

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話語輕說、點到為止即可

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聰明人自然能聽得懂

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若不巧他聽不大懂

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你也可以採取分段分次地說

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一次把話說滿說盡

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一來對方吸收、消化不良

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二來對方也可能因此惱羞成怒、反唇相譏

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這兩種方式，其實都不算很好、很正確

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當然這種建議也是因人而異

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畢竟你們彼此緣分深淺

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是否有義務提點他人

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他人是否願意接受，則又是另一回事

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留白也能用在兩個人相處的空間模式上

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任何人都需要一點自己的獨處空間

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任意侵佔或掠奪佔用他人的私人空間甚至時間

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剛開始興致正熱時還好

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時間久了終會感覺厭煩

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做人處事也一樣

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留一點白，事不要做絕、話不要說盡

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給彼此一點退路

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相信你們的人際關係也會較為圓滿

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留白的相處哲學其實運用還很廣泛

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比如說，你在思考一件事情時

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你總覺得十拿九穩

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那麼你是否有預留配套空間

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來應付突如其來的狀況呢

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再比如男女之間的相處與交往

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太膩了你覺得厭煩

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太遠了你覺得冷淡

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留白的相處或許會適合彼此也不一定

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另外在對待自己的情況也一樣

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不要將自己的時間與思緒佔得太滿

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要留些空間給自己

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不要把自己榨乾

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讓自己有空間可反芻自己的思緒

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並沉澱自己的心靈

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適度給自己放鬆

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你才能再度上緊發條

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重新向前走

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其他像是色彩學上的留白

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形與相的對比

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色彩濃淡烘托相襯

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建築美學中的空間感等等

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就不一一細述了

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留白其實是一門很高深的技巧

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需要你們細細地品味

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比如你們應該能理解那種

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「無聲勝有聲」的心靈觸動

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一個人話說得再多、再滿

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都遠不如他的默默陪伴

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更令人動容

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沒有色彩的留白，看似無色

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實則色彩豐富，需要你們用心去體會

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我是***上師，我們下次再見

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傳訊日期20201104

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天使之心版權為觀音之愛以及與觀音之愛的合作團隊所有

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任何人不得對內容刪減或增添

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也不得作為任何商業用途

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如果引用，必須註明出處

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