1 00:00:02,635 --> 00:00:03,837 天使之心 2 00:00:04,070 --> 00:00:05,105 59 3 00:00:05,372 --> 00:00:06,906 侧看从众效应 4 00:00:07,941 --> 00:00:09,275 问候大家 5 00:00:09,442 --> 00:00:12,178 我是***上师,***团的指导老师 6 00:00:12,645 --> 00:00:16,216 今天是平安夜,一个充满祝福的日子 7 00:00:16,950 --> 00:00:19,319 上师今天要谈的主题是 8 00:00:19,352 --> 00:00:21,087 「侧看从众效应」 9 00:00:21,588 --> 00:00:24,290 从众效应单从字面上来看 10 00:00:24,290 --> 00:00:27,694 是指个体在群体的主导或自我臆想下 11 00:00:27,727 --> 00:00:29,996 跟从大众的选择与意愿 12 00:00:29,996 --> 00:00:32,732 从自我行为与思想概念之中 13 00:00:32,766 --> 00:00:34,300 压抑真正的自我 14 00:00:34,334 --> 00:00:36,202 放弃其独立的思考 15 00:00:36,202 --> 00:00:38,905 去接近欲服从的行为与概念 16 00:00:39,539 --> 00:00:41,741 你们也称为羊群效应 17 00:00:42,208 --> 00:00:45,311 我们都知道,价值是很主观的 18 00:00:45,845 --> 00:00:48,014 每个人对待不同的事物 19 00:00:48,048 --> 00:00:50,650 心中皆有不同的价值观认定 20 00:00:51,251 --> 00:00:53,720 有些人看重金钱与物质 21 00:00:53,753 --> 00:00:55,588 觉得有形有价的物品 22 00:00:55,622 --> 00:00:57,691 在他心中较为重要 23 00:00:58,224 --> 00:01:00,660 有些人看淡金钱的需求 24 00:01:00,694 --> 00:01:03,229 侧重在精神方面的意识提升 25 00:01:03,263 --> 00:01:04,998 追求喜悦与平静 26 00:01:05,632 --> 00:01:09,502 其实不管你们心中认定有价值的事物为何 27 00:01:09,536 --> 00:01:12,505 都该注意自己心中衡量的平衡点 28 00:01:12,505 --> 00:01:15,108 也就是我们常说的保持中性 29 00:01:15,709 --> 00:01:18,912 因为不管你的需求是过度还是贫乏 30 00:01:18,945 --> 00:01:21,247 皆有其不足与匮乏之处 31 00:01:21,247 --> 00:01:24,851 唯有中性才是最理想、最佳的平衡 32 00:01:25,418 --> 00:01:26,953 回到价值认定 33 00:01:26,953 --> 00:01:29,422 有时你们目光与耳朵会习惯性 34 00:01:29,456 --> 00:01:32,225 捕捉一些觉得有「价值」的关键字 35 00:01:32,258 --> 00:01:35,095 有些人也就是你们俗称的脑波弱 36 00:01:35,128 --> 00:01:37,764 较容易失去自己心中的平衡 37 00:01:37,797 --> 00:01:40,033 而随着所见、所闻 38 00:01:40,066 --> 00:01:42,235 所以为的侧重或偏差 39 00:01:42,769 --> 00:01:46,239 例如有人宣称某项产品有神奇功效 40 00:01:46,239 --> 00:01:47,841 内容包罗万象 41 00:01:47,841 --> 00:01:50,143 随你们各自想像与定位 42 00:01:50,176 --> 00:01:54,047 (说是定位,是因为类似广告文案包装太多 43 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:56,416 上师不想在传讯中点明) 44 00:01:56,449 --> 00:01:59,919 你们有些较清醒的人会保持怀疑与观望 45 00:01:59,953 --> 00:02:02,989 但有些人内在自性的平衡点不够 46 00:02:03,023 --> 00:02:05,358 心中衡量的水平易偏斜 47 00:02:05,392 --> 00:02:07,494 轻易就落入一些不大实际 48 00:02:07,527 --> 00:02:09,996 且有待商榷的商业包装陷阱 49 00:02:10,630 --> 00:02:12,332 又因为某些机制 50 00:02:12,365 --> 00:02:14,401 可能是觉得既然下了水 51 00:02:14,434 --> 00:02:17,504 又感觉产品不算有明显的大问题 52 00:02:17,537 --> 00:02:19,372 也就轻易交出信任 53 00:02:19,406 --> 00:02:22,008 认定那项产品好像真不错 54 00:02:22,609 --> 00:02:23,576 就这样 55 00:02:23,610 --> 00:02:27,447 包装产品的哄抬效果与美化机制逐渐成形 56 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:31,384 其他人见到大众开始一窝蜂抢购某项产品 57 00:02:31,384 --> 00:02:34,187 就不自觉地犯起头疼脑热的毛病 58 00:02:34,220 --> 00:02:36,690 从众的盲目效应于焉成立 59 00:02:37,257 --> 00:02:39,959 本来每个人都是独立的个体 60 00:02:39,993 --> 00:02:41,628 该有各自的喜好 61 00:02:41,661 --> 00:02:45,365 可当群众被某种所谓的幻象机制迷惑时 62 00:02:45,398 --> 00:02:49,202 许多人也跟着丧失各自的独立思考与意志 63 00:02:49,235 --> 00:02:52,305 导致整体智商水平思考能力降低 64 00:02:52,339 --> 00:02:54,941 群体精神轻易取代个人意志 65 00:02:54,974 --> 00:02:58,445 一个人独特的自我也就此被群体所淹没 66 00:02:59,045 --> 00:03:01,614 类似的例子,多不胜数 67 00:03:02,115 --> 00:03:04,217 一个团体中某位领导者 68 00:03:04,250 --> 00:03:07,153 本身具有一定程度的社会影响力 69 00:03:07,187 --> 00:03:09,489 信任与追随他的人颇多 70 00:03:09,489 --> 00:03:11,458 最初大家还或许是朝着 71 00:03:11,491 --> 00:03:14,594 某个美好的共同愿景而聚集在一起 72 00:03:15,328 --> 00:03:16,730 可是时日一久 73 00:03:16,763 --> 00:03:19,232 某些关乎利益或某些其他攸关 74 00:03:19,232 --> 00:03:22,135 领导者个人的切身问题浮现时 75 00:03:22,168 --> 00:03:25,538 如果领导者没有时刻觉察自己的意念 76 00:03:25,572 --> 00:03:28,775 放任他内心的黑暗面滋生甚至扩大 77 00:03:28,808 --> 00:03:31,811 进而逐步让自己的利益凌驾于群体 78 00:03:31,845 --> 00:03:34,014 甚至大众利益之上时 79 00:03:34,047 --> 00:03:37,217 他就会驱策自己所有可运用的资源 80 00:03:37,217 --> 00:03:40,153 做出一些或许是夸大自身商品 81 00:03:40,153 --> 00:03:42,655 (也可说是为了达到某个目的) 82 00:03:42,689 --> 00:03:44,024 抑或是贬低 83 00:03:44,024 --> 00:03:47,027 压抑他人真实信仰的言论与举措 84 00:03:47,060 --> 00:03:49,562 甚至发动所谓的群众压力 85 00:03:49,562 --> 00:03:51,264 制造舆论带风向 86 00:03:51,297 --> 00:03:52,866 意图遂其所愿 87 00:03:53,566 --> 00:03:56,903 而有时大众的盲目信仰与崇拜的力量 88 00:03:56,936 --> 00:03:59,673 就会跟随这个领导者蜂拥而至 89 00:03:59,673 --> 00:04:03,810 群起效尤,直接或间接成为当事者的帮凶 90 00:04:04,310 --> 00:04:07,247 一个人的价值观是否有所偏差 91 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:09,249 要从他遇到事情时 92 00:04:09,282 --> 00:04:12,118 心里产生的各种情绪与思维 93 00:04:12,152 --> 00:04:14,587 是否足以自性地控制掌握 94 00:04:14,621 --> 00:04:16,556 而不是在不自觉之间 95 00:04:16,589 --> 00:04:18,992 放任纵容自己而一无所察 96 00:04:19,025 --> 00:04:20,527 铸成某些错误 97 00:04:21,127 --> 00:04:23,263 你们该学会在群体中 98 00:04:23,296 --> 00:04:26,599 犹能保持自我觉察、醒觉的能力 99 00:04:27,100 --> 00:04:28,868 因为组织领导者 100 00:04:28,902 --> 00:04:31,771 有时的确会为了个人的某种私利 101 00:04:31,805 --> 00:04:34,274 而做出不当的选择与决定 102 00:04:34,908 --> 00:04:37,744 而你们大多数人身处群体之中 103 00:04:37,777 --> 00:04:40,046 往往会为了介意他人目光 104 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:43,316 甚至无法承受自己被划入「异议者」 105 00:04:43,350 --> 00:04:47,220 而让自己的想法与感觉被压抑在群体意志中 106 00:04:47,253 --> 00:04:51,057 跟着群众做出违背自己意愿与想法的事 107 00:04:51,691 --> 00:04:54,861 尤其当一个人表面上显得道貌岸然 108 00:04:54,861 --> 00:04:57,564 人情世故方面做得圆滑玲珑 109 00:04:57,597 --> 00:05:01,167 你更难从外表拆穿他私底下的真实面目 110 00:05:01,801 --> 00:05:03,903 当然上师不是要你们妄自 111 00:05:03,937 --> 00:05:06,973 对他人进行无意义的揣测与批评 112 00:05:06,973 --> 00:05:09,175 毕竟没有人是十全十美 113 00:05:09,209 --> 00:05:12,012 你们要做的永远是对自己负责 114 00:05:12,012 --> 00:05:15,115 不要轻易将指责的矛头对准他人 115 00:05:15,682 --> 00:05:18,351 你们该做的是诚实面对自己 116 00:05:18,385 --> 00:05:22,489 而不是制造与自我神圣内在殊异的分裂与矛盾 117 00:05:23,089 --> 00:05:26,493 一个事情、一项指标、一个产品 118 00:05:26,526 --> 00:05:28,962 某种定价,此类种种 119 00:05:28,962 --> 00:05:32,298 皆是由你们的群体意识、社会价值 120 00:05:32,332 --> 00:05:35,735 自我主观、某种信仰所结合而成 121 00:05:36,269 --> 00:05:39,506 上师不是故意要将话说得难以理解 122 00:05:39,539 --> 00:05:41,708 而是你们的价值观认定 123 00:05:41,741 --> 00:05:44,577 从根本上来说就是如此复杂 124 00:05:45,178 --> 00:05:47,514 举一个你们最熟悉的例子 125 00:05:47,514 --> 00:05:51,484 古往今来,不管是你们的东方或西方世界 126 00:05:51,484 --> 00:05:54,654 宗教信仰向来都把持在高位者手中 127 00:05:54,688 --> 00:05:57,257 作为操控下位者的手段之一 128 00:05:57,857 --> 00:06:01,628 因宗教问题而遭曲解、打压的案例太多 129 00:06:01,661 --> 00:06:02,829 也太惨烈 130 00:06:02,862 --> 00:06:05,965 上师也不想拿往昔那些不大适当的例子 131 00:06:05,999 --> 00:06:08,134 作为今日传讯的收尾 132 00:06:08,735 --> 00:06:12,872 你们都是拥有各自神圣自我连结与力量的个体 133 00:06:12,906 --> 00:06:17,010 每个人都无可避免需要融入群体社会的生活中 134 00:06:17,043 --> 00:06:18,578 但大家又各自巧妙地 135 00:06:18,578 --> 00:06:21,281 拥有自己独立的思考与连结 136 00:06:21,948 --> 00:06:24,984 上师希望你们能找回真正的自我 137 00:06:25,018 --> 00:06:26,453 对自己的认同 138 00:06:26,486 --> 00:06:28,555 以及辨别是非的能力 139 00:06:29,189 --> 00:06:31,925 所谓的价值、是非与对错 140 00:06:31,925 --> 00:06:34,761 不该是由他人群众决定或判断 141 00:06:34,794 --> 00:06:37,964 你们都该用自己清明澄澈自我的心性 142 00:06:37,964 --> 00:06:41,568 去看待笼罩着你们意识外围那张无形的网 143 00:06:42,168 --> 00:06:45,905 期待你们能更加坚定地把持住自我的心性 144 00:06:45,939 --> 00:06:48,341 勇敢面对自我人生的课题 145 00:06:48,375 --> 00:06:50,877 不要一遇到痛苦事件或挑战 146 00:06:50,877 --> 00:06:54,314 就急着将自己蜷缩起来、不愿面对 147 00:06:54,814 --> 00:06:58,918 人生中许多苦难,背后总藏着某种祝福 148 00:06:59,652 --> 00:07:02,022 不要害怕、也不要怨怼 149 00:07:02,055 --> 00:07:06,059 终有一天,你生命中感悟的临界点出现时 150 00:07:06,092 --> 00:07:07,494 你终将明白 151 00:07:07,494 --> 00:07:09,129 自己其实一直都活在 152 00:07:09,162 --> 00:07:11,464 众神与宇宙间爱的包围中 153 00:07:11,464 --> 00:07:13,266 一刻也没分开过 154 00:07:13,833 --> 00:07:17,337 上师殷切地期待你们都能清醒地活着 155 00:07:17,337 --> 00:07:19,339 不再只是盲目地跟随 156 00:07:19,372 --> 00:07:21,007 找回真性的自我 157 00:07:21,007 --> 00:07:23,443 迎向你们各自灿烂的明天 158 00:07:24,010 --> 00:07:28,248 我是***上师,祝福你们,有机会再见 159 00:07:28,848 --> 00:07:32,719 传讯日期20201224 160 00:07:34,254 --> 00:07:39,092 天使之心版权为观音之爱以及与观音之爱的合作团队所有 161 00:07:39,359 --> 00:07:42,095 任何人不得对内容删减或增添 162 00:07:42,429 --> 00:07:44,731 也不得作为任何商业用途 163 00:07:45,065 --> 00:07:47,300 如果引用,必须注明出处 164 00:07:47,567 --> 00:07:51,237 更多灵性资讯,欢迎上观音之爱网站了解